In case you're wondering what exactly we mean when we're talking to our guy friends, I've provided a basic outline of some of the more commonly used phrases -- and their true meanings. whenever a guy says that your not his girlfriend but your are with him - he is keep his opions open but dosenot want to share you with anyone other guy. In all of those years together, we were best friends, we had discussions about the children, how we would spend money, which house to buy etc,. OK, so there’s this guy I like. Problem is, he doesn’t speak much English, and I speak some Spanish. just let it go as long as your happy who cares, he probably doesn't know the difference between together and boyfriend, girlfriend. This is the 4th. The best answer is to ask him what he means by "we're together". Does that mean he thinks we're boyfriend and girlfriend? Still have questions? say ‘I love you’ without really meaning it. 4. Or it means that we're going absolutely nowhere. We’ve been together for 3 years and expect a happy life together very soon in the future. TK says: July 17, 2017 at 6:38 pm. Additionally, if you're always the one to initiate plans; or maybe he or she has met your friends and family but you haven't met theirs; or if you're constantly wondering where you stand in your partnership, you are probably in a one-sided situation . He means: I love that incredible thing you are doing with your finger/tongue/body right now. 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A lot of relationships don't — and won't — happen simply because the timing was off. I was getting a little better slowly and suddenly he decided we were going on a year long break. My results say, that we have a good chance of being together! Now, since the goal of this guide is to teach you about the mind of a man who says, “I don’t want to be with you right now” I am going to give you my thoughts on what is going on in the mind of a man who says this phrase in each of the parts. If he introduces you as his girlfriend and you start referring to him as you boyfriend ... then you are together. When a guy says “I love you” to you, we tend to think that it just means what it says. Good luck. Does this mean we are still in the dating stage or does he consider me to be his girl friend already? I don't care that much, to be honest, but yesterday when he introduced me to his friends he said "Hey, this is Lily and we're together", and put his arm around my shoulders. 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